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LOVE & LOSS: BEREAVEMENT SUPPORT

If you have lost someone you love, you may be struggling with the journey of grief. Piers runs a support group for people struggling with grief been bereaved. The group is called Love & Loss. There is no charge and anyone over the age of 18 is welcome to attend. You can come once or as often as you like.

The local group takes place at the Clarke Foley Centre in Ilkley - on the last Monday of each month at 7.30pm.

Forthcoming dates in 2022 are as follows:

30th May | 27th June | 25th July | 29th August

There is level access at the Clarke Foley Centre. The address is:

Clarke Foley Centre, Cunliffe Road, Ilkley, West Yorkshire, LS29 9DZ

                                        Piers also runs an online group in conjunction with the Cumbria, Northumberland, Tyne and Wear                                            NHS Foundation Trust. This group is for health and social care staff in these regions only. Details                                              of how to join the group are available through the staff wellbeing page.

Get in touch with Piers if you'd like to know more.

THINGS TO DO RIGHT NOW THAT CAN HELP

Being bereaved is a strange and sometimes frightening world to live in, and often people feel lost and do not know what to do. If you are struggling right now, here are five things that might help:

1.  Breathe deeply. Try counting to four slowly as you breathe in, and then holding for a count of two, and then out for a count of four. Pause for a count of two before breathing in again. Do this for a few minutes, trying to concentrate mainly on how your breathing feels, rather than on anything else. If this seems hard to do, don't worry.
 

2. Get some fresh air. If you are able, go for a walk, perhaps to the park if you have one nearby or into the countryside. Any form of exercise is helpful.
 

3. Talk to someone. You may well be feeling lonely - and while it is necessary to begin to face this, it is also good to reach out to someone for a chat. You don't have to talk about how you are feeling necessarily; just communicating with someone else can help.
 

4. Be kind to yourself. Try not to be cross with yourself when you are emotional; allow yourself some rest when you are tired; set targets that are manageable; treat yourself.

5. Keep notes. Write down how you are feeling in, and look at it tomorrow. Make a note of whether anything from this list has helped you feel better.

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COUNSELLING & OTHER SUPPORT 

Love and Loss does not offer one to one counselling, and Piers is not a trained counsellor.
The easiest way to find this type of support is to visit the Good Grief Trust page:

Here you will find a searchable map of services around the country, as well as many helplines for different needs.

If you are in the Leeds area, please see the Leeds Bereavement Forum for local information.

For support to people who have been affected by a suicide bereavement:
If you are in the Leeds area, https://www.leedssbs.org.uk/

The Bradford and West Yorkshire: https://wyhsbs.org.uk/

IF YOU NEED TO TALK TO SOMEONE RIGHT NOW:

24 HOUR SUPPORT LINES

Samaritans - 116 123 (UK) For anyone at anytime for any reason

Cruse - 0808 808 1677 - Grief support

Childline - 0800 1111 - Support for 18yrs & under and their relatives